Being Single on V-Day…Not so bad!
As Valentine’s Day approaches, people (mostly women) all over the country start stressing
about not having a date and can’t hold back their unsettling emotions about being single. But, that doesn’t have to happen this year, because single people can have a good time on this day as well. Check out these reasons why being single on Valentine’s Day isn’t that bad.
Spend it with friends. Valentine’s Day is meant to be about love, and is not necessarily just for couples. It can be just as rewarding to get a gang of single friends together for an enjoyable dinner. Perhaps even more pleasing to do so with good friends, except for the fact that you won’t be having sex as the night comes to an end…unless of course, you have some ‘really good’ friends.
Spring Break is approaching. People are single for all different reasons: whether you just don’t want a relationship, you have lost a significant other, there is no one you can see yourself dating at the moment, or you are just absolutely hideous and can’t even buy a date. Whatever the reason is for you being available, just role with it and have fun. You’ll be on spring break in a month or so anyway, and no one wants to be in a relationship while you’re surrounded by hot, drunken people, who will most likely be half-naked.
Save money on pointless gifts. If you think about what Valentine’s Day actually is you will probably be much happier that you’re single. Valentine’s Day should be called “Day for the vendors of Valentine’s Day products,” because they are really the ones who this holiday benefits. If you’re a man, just think about how much money you save on jewelry, flowers, candy, and not to mention all the stupid crap that sings or says “I Love You!” And if you are a woman, you won’t have to feel bad about throwing out all that dumb shit that you received from your man.
Avoid arguments. Sometimes when one half of a couple is pretty much forced into doing something special or expects a gift that they don’t get, it can really ruin a Valentine’s Day all together. Fights break out over the most ridiculous things and who knows how long it will last. Single people don’t have to deal with all that bull. You don’t have to worry about pleasing anyone but yourself, so enjoy it while you can.
Focus on more important things. You might be one of those people who are continuously searching for a girlfriend/boyfriend, and I really hope you aren’t. To do this would be a waste of time, especially if you’re a student. Worry more about your degree rather than a relationship, which probably won’t last too long anyway considering you are obviously desperate and want to date someone just for the fact of “dating someone.” It’s not like the love of your life is playing hide and seek with you, so you shouldn’t be looking.
Relationships just happen, so if this year you happen to be single and are still unhappy about the whole situation, there are still 365 more days to bump into your potential soul-mate before the next Valentine’s Day. In the meantime focus on the more important things, like yourself and your career. Who knows? Maybe you’ll fall into a relationship or get rich, buy yourself a new face and get anyone you want!
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